In recent interviews, Phoebe Bridgers recounted what inspired the emotional lyrics of "Kyoto," her up-tempo track off the musician's 2020 album, Punisher. The song's opening line, "Day off in Kyoto/Got bored at the temple," was inspired by her time on tour in Tokyo, where she really did spend a lot of time in 7-Elevens, according to The Line of Best Fit. Most of the lyrics, however, are actually about Bridgers' complicated relationship with her dad.
In The New York Times' "Diary of a Song," she says the lyrics are like "a collage chopped up into one experience," and describes how the inspiration came when she and her co-writer Marshall Vore were talking about their dads and realizing how similar they were. "It's just about that complex relationship that you can never kind of get rid of," Bridgers said.
The specific details in the lyrics, like missing birthdays, are more interpretations of the truth than cold, hard facts. She explained in The Line of Best Fit that her dad is actually pretty good at remembering dates like birthdays, and it's her grandfather who tends to forget them. She also revealed that they never talked about the meaning of "Kyoto," but when the song was nominated for a Grammy, he joked that he'd "like to take some responsibility" for it.
Even though her feelings about her relationship with her dad are complex, Bridgers said that she's begun speaking to him again since the pandemic, and it's actually been nice.
